Nice Girl Vs. Mean Girl

I finally learnt from reading books, dating several jerks and surviving heartbreaks that guys actually like mean girls. Can you believe it? Please let me know what you think. However, let me share with you what I know so far.

Do you know that whatever you chase actually runs away from you? what?! Okay, let me break it down for you. When it comes to dealing with a man, you can not chase him. He must and should be the one chasing you. Now why would a man run away from a woman coming on to him so aggressively? Because he is thinking to himself that this 'chick' must not place a high value on herself. The relationship or dating is new and no bond yet or maybe kinda of shallow, yet she's already giving me everything that I should be working for. The mere fact that she is willing to go above and beyond for a complete stranger (yes! you are still strangers to each other because as of now, you are meeting the representatives from both parties) is baffling to him and he is assuming that this girl is either desperate or she sleeps with men right away. He is not appreciating your extra effort. Girls! once a man begins to lose respect for a woman because she is willing to subtly devalue herself, he will also lose desire to get closer.

Let me share with you the mean girl version: The mean girl won't kill herself to impress anyone, yes! you heard me-she comes first, she is the queen, diva, the prize...you get my drift. The woman he really falls in love with doesn't serve a four course meal (please!). She will not bring the best of her china either. But what she does is begin to serve popcorn, pretzel and whatever. If he's hungry and wants to eat, he will take her out and not to some fast food joint either. However, the same woman will present the best meal and puts a hot plate in front of him after SIX MONTHS!